“Every summer when school’s out, I start to feel stressed,” a working mom shared. “I can’t take time off work, and there’s no one to watch the kids. I worry they’ll get bored stuck at home with screens, or worse, something unsafe might happen.”
This is a feeling many working parents know all too well. Summer break means fun and rest for kids, but for families where both parents work, it can feel like a big juggling act.
Kids staying home all day isn’t great for their growth. They might get lonely or spend way too much time on phones and tablets. So, what’s the best choice — daycare, summer camps, or making your own plan at home? I’ve tried all three with my kids, and each one offers something different. As kids grow, they often want more fun challenges during their summer break.
1. Daycare: Great for kids who need regular care
Daycare centers are pretty common now, especially for little kids in preschool or early elementary grades. They offer a steady routine, with caring staff who handle meals, naps, and fun activities — so parents can work without worrying. When my child was younger, we chose daycare. The teachers were great and the place was safe. She even got cute braids! But since she was still a bit clingy, she sometimes looked a little unsure in the photos from daycare.
Why it’s great: Safe, professional care with a steady schedule that helps kids stay on track.
What to keep in mind: Can be pricey, and spots might be hard to get in some areas.
📌 Research shows that kids in quality daycare do better with behavior and language skills (Burchinal et al., 2010).
2. Summer Camps: Perfect for kids who want to learn while having fun
Summer camps come in all sorts — sports, coding, art, science experiments, language classes, and more. Camps help kids make new friends, build social skills, try new things, and see the world from different angles. My kid loves camps and asks me to sign her up every summer. She has a blast making friends and trying new activities.
Why it’s great: Lots of fun and learning, and some camps have overnight stays to help kids become more independent.
What to keep in mind: Can be expensive, and you need to sign up early.
📌 Studies show kids who go to camps do better in school, teamwork, and confidence (Alexander et al., 2007).
3. Family DIY: Awesome for families with flexible schedules and creativity
If one parent can work flexibly or on shifts, making your own summer plan at home can work really well. Mix online classes, trips to the library, or museum visits, and create a plan that fits your family’s rhythm. When I’m less busy, I work from home while spending time with my child — it makes her feel safe and happy.
Why it’s great: Flexible, saves money, fits your family perfectly, and is great for bonding.
What to keep in mind: Takes more time and planning from parents.
📌 Research shows kids whose families are more involved over summer lose less learning (Cooper et al., 1996).
How to choose what’s right for your family?
Think about these:
- Your child’s age and personality: Younger kids usually do better with daycare or family time; older kids might enjoy camps more.
- Your work schedule and budget: Do you have flexible hours? How much can you spend?
- Family support and local options: Can grandparents or neighbors help? Are there good programs nearby?
Pro tip: Mix it up!
Many families find a combo works best: camp for part of the summer, family activities for the rest; busy weeks might include some daycare. This keeps things interesting and safe.
To sum up
There’s no perfect answer for summer plans. The key is to find what fits your family so your kids have a safe, fun, and happy summer.
